5 to 10 minutes

Materials

Pad of paperPen

Directions When your child wants something at a store, take out the paper and write it down together. Knowing that you are listening can go a long way toward eliminating crying or tantrums. Extensions

Use the list for rewards for especially good or loving behavior.Put the list where your child can see it and ask you to read it.Cross out each wish that is granted so your child can look back on all that they have.